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Old 11-10-2017, 12:03 AM
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Oh trust me my affidavit says just that and more. we have been hanging in to it in hopes of coming to a settlement but I am at the pint I'm ready to tell my lawyer to file it so her and her lawyer can see my evidence brought forward.
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Old 11-10-2017, 12:09 AM
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She is devious though she knew eventually having the kids so busy in activities they will be able to decide when they are 12 if they want to come see me or go to their activities. I didn't want to argue over the money so offered to pay for them all and in return set a maximum budget going forward and that the kids come to me on my wkd regardless.
Has she kept the child from you on your weekends? If so, then you need to cross motion with a contempt motion.

I wouldn't let the ex tell me how to spend my time with our child. We'll do whatever the hell we want. I highly doubt that the children would choose their activities over you. I'm sure they miss you lots given your little time they have with you and how prolonged the visits - or rather , parenting times are.

I'm not sure what to say to children in that situation if they are choosing sports over you. Perhaps you could speak to an experienced social worker to help you be able to process such thoughts /concerns with your children ?
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Old 11-10-2017, 12:16 AM
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The kids have told me over and over they are more than happy to come see me and miss their sporting activities. When they get older and are not under their mother control (making them feel bad missing their sports to come see me) then they can express their true feelings on the matter. Right now as far as I see it it is done to limit my access and or force me into a schedule I had no say in.
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Old 11-10-2017, 12:18 AM
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Just a helpless situation now. She wants to cut back my weekends so they can attend their sports. I had no say. This is how she punishes me. She knows I value every second I get with the kids.
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Old 11-10-2017, 12:20 AM
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There you go. THat's what I like to hear. Now go restore your time and have your lawyer persuade the judge to tell the mom to take a hike. Actually, I don't think your lawyer will have to do much talking. A judge will likely tell mom to take a hike. No judge will be happy with what mom has done here.

There should be a book called "what not to do as a sole custodial mom"
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So should I just stop hanging on to my response and file it? 6 months have passed of back and forth on the proposals and still nothing.
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So should I just stop hanging on to my response and file it? 6 months have passed of back and forth on the proposals and still nothing.
provide a response in your hearing affidavit
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Old 11-11-2017, 04:39 PM
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I'm not sure what that is? We keep adjourning court to come to an agreement if that isn't going to happen we have composed a response to her affidavit....which we will file anyways we are just holding off until an agreement is made.
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