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Old 04-21-2017, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted by trinton View Post
would have to file motion to suspend child support ,, the child will already be back with mom by the time the paper work is done. Our family court system is too slow and too stubborn. it's one of the most unfortunate things that Canada has to offer. a very slow paced family legal system that is designed to make lawyers rich, and destroy families and children by taking money from families and putting it into the lawyers pockets, and in turn to the government via taxes and into the judges pockets - while you pay for it by taxes as well. double rape. welcome to Canada.

anyway, probably cheaper and less stressful to just pay, or you could just not pay and cuss out the FRO employees when they call you - it's always fun to take out your anger on the FRO employees - you get to call them whatever comes out of your mouth.

I would send letter to mom asking her to sign consent and see what she says.
Very poor advice. The last thing you should do is be rude to people who can make your life miserable in the future. People working in a call center (FR0/MEP) aren't to blame for court ordered support payments. In fact, maintenance enforcement agencies can help you out when the courts will not.
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Old 04-23-2017, 09:16 PM
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We do agree that a percentage would still go to mom, bit certainly not the entire amount.

Sad and Tired: Mom didn't tell Dad that D10 would be living with the Grandparents for 2 months, Grandma brought it up in conversation, not knowing that we hadn't been told yet. It wasn't something that was discussed with Dad.

The Mom said that she planned on bringing some groceries now and then to help them out. We and the Grandparents both know they'd be lucky if they even received help with groceries.

After pressing a little harder, Mom decided D10 will not be living with the Grandparents after all, she wasn't going to give up a penny of that cheque.
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