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Old 12-02-2017, 10:59 AM
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Initial post says 5 kids altogether. ..


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I think they had kids 1 and 2. Kid 3 came when they were together but is not same dad as kids 1 and 2. And then kids 4 and 5 came along (not his).

I am concerned that they took all 5 kids when there is no parental conflict for 2 of them. So does the kinship aunt have all 5 kids? CAS will place the kids with a family member whenever possible. But CAS still has care and control... keep the kids on the books. That's how they make their money folks.
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Old 12-03-2017, 11:48 AM
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I think they had kids 1 and 2. Kid 3 came when they were together but is not same dad as kids 1 and 2. And then kids 4 and 5 came along (not his).

I am concerned that they took all 5 kids when there is no parental conflict for 2 of them. So does the kinship aunt have all 5 kids? CAS will place the kids with a family member whenever possible. But CAS still has care and control... keep the kids on the books. That's how they make their money folks.
hmm so the only common denominator between the 5 kids is mom. Maybe the bigger issue is something to do with mom and not so much parental conflict? Maybe dad reported something to CAS and that why the term parental conflict is being thrown around????

I am just speculating here and throwing out some ideas.
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The whole situation is alarming, however I don’t believe you can just remove him from the birth certificate, especially seeing as it seems he has raise said child as his own, has parenting time with child and I assume pays CS for child. I think a court order may be needed to remove him but removing him would seems like removing his parental right so one would think that would mean no parenting time and no CS for that child.

As for a legal guardian... if the children have fathers who have parental rights those dads will always gain custody of the children over some other family member.

I think the OP needs to consult a lawyer on this


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Old 12-04-2017, 09:33 AM
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November 3, all 5 of my kids were apprehended by Children's Services for parental conflict.


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I want to have my ex removed from my daughter's birth certificate and change her last name to mine.
Wait, so while CAS has your kids because of excessive conflict, your plan is to create additional (and completely unnecessary) conflict?

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Keep CAS on your speed dial, they're going to be hanging out with you for years to come.

It must suck to be your kids.
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