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Old 01-11-2017, 09:08 PM
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Hi Everyone,

I need your advice.

Here's a brief summary.

2 year Custody and Access Battle
She wants sole Custody - I had asked for 50/50

She has referred me to Children's Aid 5 times. It started off a your classic child sexual abuse allegation and escalated to the most egregious forms of child sexual abuse allegations.

All this began when I applied for joint custody and shared access.
On all 5 occasions, I was in the presence of multiple witnesses.
On all 5 occasions, the CAS investigated and found her allegations unfounded.
She didn't fool the CAS nor did she fool the Clinical Psychologist who conducted the custody and access assessment. In the report, the Assessing Clinical Psychologist mildly rebuked her for her multiple CAS referrals

Separate from the CAS investigations, she has tried unsuccessfully to implicate me 4 separate times and has involved the police. I have never been brought in for questioning by the police.

Today, I have been referred to the CAS again.

This time the police want to interview me for a sex-related issue involving my child.

My Lawyers are involved and they are great!.

Does anyone have any advice regarding the interview itself?

Thanks
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Old 01-11-2017, 09:40 PM
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no, I do not, but assuming that you are a good dad.... I wish you and your kids well!
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Old 01-11-2017, 11:11 PM
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The only reason the police would want to interview you is in hopes to get information to press charges. Don't speak to them. Only speak to CAS.

You can speak to the police but you have to be a real smart ass. What you say to the police can and will be used against you.

Last time I was accused and asked by police to be questioned, I was advised by both a family and criminal lawyer that the police will press charges if they have sufficient evidence. They bring you in to see if they can get the evidence they need to press charges. They will come off friendly and kind but it is a trap. Lots of people go to these interviews and incriminate themselves. You don't know exactly what she has said to the police. These are very serious allegations. Enough to grant you sole custody if they are unfounded.

In my case I told the cop that I had spoken with my lawyer and that I would not be going in for an interview. It was the end of that. The allegations were not as serious as yours but still serious enough to send me to the criminal courts.





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I suggest you watch this video. http://www.separation.ca/videos/police-and-cas

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I would have filed for sole custody after accusation number 3 and I would have gotten it.

If there is no cost to false accusations then there is no reason to not do it.
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Hi Everyone,

I need your advice.
Here's a brief summary.
2 year Custody and Access Battle
Hi,

tmsrtl, trinton, Links17,

I really appreciate your advice, guidance, and support.

Based on your input, I made a significant decision today. I've spoken with both a family and criminal lawyer.

I will let you know all know what happens.

Thanks again!
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Hi Everyone,

I need your advice.

Here's a brief summary.

2 year Custody and Access Battle
She wants sole Custody - I had asked for 50/50

She has referred me to Children's Aid 5 times. It started off a your classic child sexual abuse allegation and escalated to the most egregious forms of child sexual abuse allegations.

All this began when I applied for joint custody and shared access.
On all 5 occasions, I was in the presence of multiple witnesses.
On all 5 occasions, the CAS investigated and found her allegations unfounded.
She didn't fool the CAS nor did she fool the Clinical Psychologist who conducted the custody and access assessment. In the report, the Assessing Clinical Psychologist mildly rebuked her for her multiple CAS referrals

Separate from the CAS investigations, she has tried unsuccessfully to implicate me 4 separate times and has involved the police. I have never been brought in for questioning by the police.

Today, I have been referred to the CAS again.

This time the police want to interview me for a sex-related issue involving my child.

My Lawyers are involved and they are great!.

Does anyone have any advice regarding the interview itself?

Thanks
Yes I can help you. You can make CAS your best resource. Looks like you're on a golden path to sole custody with all her crap.

I've been through it buddy. I'll be on later.. don't go anywhere.
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Hi LovingFather32,

Any additional assistance would be great!

Thanks

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Any additional assistance would be great!

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You having turkey?. Lol. Got to love spell check.

Let me make supper for my ladies and do some Landry buddy and I'll be on in a bit.
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Shoot...double post ... sorry
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