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View Poll Results: what are my chances of getting to see my son after 3 years/
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Old 07-05-2009, 03:47 PM
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I am in desperate need of advice, on a custody matter.. here the story..

three years ago i was charged with assult of my ex, i was sentenced house arrest. it got served and i was to have no contact with her. at the same time we went through child custody about our son. she got sole and i got supervised visits. even though i was to have no contact with her for one year. then one year was up, i had no idea how to contact her or any of her family members. i have not seen my son since he was 3 months old. since then i have married and have 2 kids, turned my life completly around, my wife now is in contact with the ex and she wants the kids to know ones another but my ex doesnt want my son to know me. i am in process of arranging a court date. but since i have not seen my son in 3 years will the court rule in her favour and i will never see him?

please someone i need advice on this, am i just wasting my time?
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Old 07-05-2009, 03:54 PM
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For a chance to see your son it would never be a waste of time. I would only pursue it if you have documentation you have gotten help with your anger management issues. If not I would sign up for one.
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Old 07-05-2009, 03:59 PM
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Never a waste of time so pursue it
If nothing else your son when he is older and curious and able to contact you will know you tried to find him and want him in your life.
What is meant to be, will be and if your ex thinks she will be able to prevent you from seeing him in the future...she is sadly mistaken and it will only come back to bite regardless of your previous crime.
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Old 07-05-2009, 05:09 PM
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The courts will award you access. It already did with supervised access. She does not have the right to prevent your relationship with your own son.

How can two people create a child and then one think that they are the ONLY parent - disgusting and self centered. You should get court costs from her.

How much access did you ask of her?

Do you pay child support? Do you pay spousal support? Not that that has anything to do with access, but they are important facts.
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i am trying for visitation in my home, and i have paid 10,000 in child support in 2 years
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