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Old 06-17-2015, 11:19 AM
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Does your oldest have supports for his adhd and odd? A social worker or support provider in school? They would be able to provide a report on how change will affect his behaviour. Definitely make lists of activities and supports they have here and how those provide potential for success. Anything and everything you can gather, do so. Then if she does seek a mobility clause (which Im pretty sure you defend against) you have proof their lives have more support here. She would also have to show what supports she has in place for them out there including care while shes working.
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Wow your situation sounds familiar. Looking forward to seeing how it unfolds as I may be faced with similar plans. Unfortunately I have no advice but good luck! Maybe our exes are conspiring together
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he has been skipping school without consequence
Can you prove this.

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My oldest has been diagnosed with adhd, and odd (oppositional defiance disorder)
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and does not have the maturity of a typical kid his age
Can you prove this
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Wow your situation sounds familiar. Looking forward to seeing how it unfolds as I may be faced with similar plans. Unfortunately I have no advice but good luck! Maybe our exes are conspiring together
I'll keep this thread updated....although this could go on forever....
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I can prove he has been skipping school and then engaging in social activities, sleepovers, playing games online etc.

He was formally diagnosed by a psychologist with both conditions.

The psychologists report makes mention of the immaturity.
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Update. The guy my ex wanted to move in with in BC has broken up with her and now she is back with her on again off again boyfriend for the last 5 years. Unbelievable how much time and money this woman wasted on another one of her stupid whims.

Of course the courts allow it to happen because anyone can say anything they want in court.
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Update. The guy my ex wanted to move in with in BC has broken up with her and now she is back with her on again off again boyfriend for the last 5 years. Unbelievable how much time and money this woman wasted on another one of her stupid whims.

Of course the courts allow it to happen because anyone can say anything they want in court.
Next time she wants to move, you can point to this incident.
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He then said that my ex has a right to seek a mobility clause if she wants to move. He never offered an opinion as to whether or not she will get one. He did say that if she starts the process that she better not change her mind part way through or he will award full costs to me.
Anything on costs for this?
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Anything on costs for this?
We only ever attended the case conference and then her and her lawyer went silent on the issue. The master at the case conference warned her that if she started the process of trying to get a mobility clause, she better not back out or she will pay all of my court costs.

There should be costs awarded because my lawyer had to prepare to answer a lot of questions related to mobility. My ex lied in her CC brief by stating that she was in a long term, stable relationship when that isn't the case.
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