Hittin the Fan

[momforever1956]

It seems that when the word disclosure is involved in Family Court---some get their backs up, as I view it.
Let's try to leave all emotions out of this, let's not talk about entitlement, or jobs, or being independant, lets not confuse the facts.
Disclosure is vital in Family Law, for CC, SP and equalization, it is the law.
So instead of pointing fingers to ethics, or morals, or fair, if someone should work or not work, why is following and respecting the law such a sore spot. There are many laws in all different systems that are unfair,,,(criminal) check out the OJ trial.
Are the tax laws fair that many high earners are not paying their share of taxes?
Maybe instead of getting your back up, and you understand that my x spouce who is lying and cheating me with money is also lying and cheating on his taxes and instead of paying hundreds of thousands of dollars into the system which by law he is suppose to,, he is travelling and spending money all for his pleasure, golf, ski, beach, while our gov't is in debt, in other words when he cheats the system he is cheating you. A liar is not selective,, so in the end you can point a finger at me--get a job, be independant ,, but be very careful because I am not the only one he is cheating, maybe our educational or medical system could use some of the hundreds of thousands of dollars he is spending on himself that by law---the less fortunate are entitled to.... Just a thought.

[Tayken]

Originally Posted by momforever1956

It seems that when the word disclosure is involved in Family Court---some get their backs up, as I view it.

When someone brings their matter to the court they are asking a PUBLIC system to solve their problem. Trying to claim "privacy" about any matter before the family court is out of the question. As soon as the person filed their application they are giving up their right to "privacy". They asked a public system to solve their problem.

That is why you can walk into any court and pull any court document. Don't want people to know how much you make... Go to arbitration or mediation... Don't go to the public system people. It is as simple as that.

(The above quote based on material from William Eddy roughly. I wish I had the direct quote in front of me on what he says. But, you can probably find it through Google.)

Good Luck!
Tayken

[momforever1956]

Tayken,

Thanks for your response and I appreciate and respect your view.

The point I wanted to make was that everytime I have posted I receive very direct pointed responses with remarks that are unkind even mean.
I have been searching for disclosure for almost 3 years and it cost me a lot of money. I did have a Case Conference and did get an order for disclosure,and till this day there are many outstanding documents, schedules etc.
My lawyer has advised me to stay away from motions etc unless it is absolutely necessary because of costs etc.
That being said so far we have more than doubled his salary and we are talking hundreds of thousands of dollars.
On this forum I have been told things such as, get a job, be a real woman, maybe the transsexuals your x was sleeping with are more woman than you are, just nasty replies.
My post was to give a different persepctive, and for people to realize that when someone lies, it is just not poor spoiled me they are deceiving.

I find it interesting that none of these people have replied to my last post, no one is now telling me to move on and get a job because now my post isnt about me but about how my x's lies could effecting them.

[blinkandimgone]

Originally Posted by momforever1956

Tayken,

Thanks for your response and I appreciate and respect your view.

The point I wanted to make was that everytime I have posted I receive very direct pointed responses with remarks that are unkind even mean.
I have been searching for disclosure for almost 3 years and it cost me a lot of [HIS] money. I did have a Case Conference and did get an order for disclosure,and till this day there are many outstanding documents, schedules etc.
My lawyer has advised me to stay away from motions etc unless it is absolutely necessary because of costs etc.
That being said so far we have more than doubled his salary and we are talking hundreds of thousands of dollars.
On this forum I have been told things such as, get a job, be a real woman, maybe the transsexuals your x was sleeping with are more woman than you are, just nasty replies.
My post was to give a different persepctive, and for people to realize that when someone lies, it is just not poor spoiled me they are deceiving.

I find it interesting that none of these people have replied to my last post, no one is now telling me to move on and get a job because now my post isnt about me but about how my x's lies could effecting them.

Fixed.

People who refuse to get a job are not considered less fortunate, they're considered lazy, selfish mooches - like you.

Thought you were taking all your ex's money and going on a trip? That was quick. Or yet another lie.

Nobody's responding to your posts because they know you're a troll. Move on, get a job.

[momforever1956]

Ya know blink,

You are one miserable low life with a very pathetic attitude. Just plain down right angry, bitter,, get urself some pills as I enjoy the sun,
Oh by the way---I do own a lap top---do you know what that is,,, or are there any at the library where you get to use a computer for free?
And just remember--my x aint supporting your hand me outs.

[blinkandimgone]

Originally Posted by momforever1956

Ya know blink,

You are one miserable low life with a very pathetic attitude. Just plain down right angry, bitter,, get urself some pills as I enjoy the sun,
Oh by the way---I do own a lap top---do you know what that is,,, or are there any at the library where you get to use a computer for free?
And just remember--my x aint supporting your hand me outs.

Drunk already? Perhaps you should try reposting later when your posts might be semi-coherant. Or not at all.

[Gary M]

Originally Posted by momforever1956

I find it interesting that none of these people have replied to my last post, no one is now telling me to move on and get a job because now my post isnt about me but about how my x's lies could effecting them.

Maybe, just maybe, that's because you didn't ask a question.

It's also likely that people are now considering your rantings to be those of a someone with a mental problem - and the good folks here aren't the type to make fun of someone like that, as it would be cruel.

Have a nice day, ma'am.

Cheers!

Gary

[standing on the sidelines]

is it just me or does momforever seem to be two different people at times. Just look at the couple of posts in this thread then the response she makes to blink. Not at all the same writing style and such.

[Gary M]

Originally Posted by standing on the sidelines

is it just me or does momforever seem to be two different people at times. Just look at the couple of posts in this thread then the response she makes to blink. Not at all the same writing style and such.

Definitely seems like different people at different times (albeit with a common theme) ... I don't think she's all-there.

Cheers!

Gary

[momforever1956]

Call it what you want,,, sounds like yoududes have been burnt so bad.. Feel sorry for you, on the otherhand some of us seek truth and justice and get it.