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Old 05-08-2014, 11:41 AM
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I still have access.
But she did threatened to hold him for money
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She called me and told what happened and I've been to the therapist
She served me with papers 2 weeks ago.
Do they calculate daycare subsidy by household incom?

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She called me and told what happened and I've been to the therapist
She served me with papers 2 weeks ago.
Do they calculate daycare subsidy by household incom?
What papers? A court application?

I don't know anything about subsidies.
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She called me and told what happened and I've been to the therapist
She served me with papers 2 weeks ago.
Do they calculate daycare subsidy by household incom?
You should be asking for the police report and any relevent material. You are an equal parent.

Daycare subsidy is a section seven expense, so its proportionate to income. If your income is $50,000 and hers is $25,000 you would be paying 2/3 of the cost. BUT daycare comes with some tax credits, so you should be paying 2/3 of the NET cost to her (cost - tax credit=net).

You need to document your 50/50 access as she may try to claim it isn't so to establish a status quo of something less. Document the dates you've had him, appointments you've gone to, events you have taken him to etc. Be prepared.
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The papers she filed with the courts show we have a verbal 50/50 agreement.
she is going for best interest for the child.

One of the last time we talked she said that her boyfriend was moving out.

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The papers she filed with the courts show we have a verbal 50/50 agreement.
she is going for best interest for the child.

One of the last time we talked she said that her boyfriend was moving out.
What kind of papers are they? A court application? A notice of Motion? what?

What her boyfriend is doing is irrelevant.
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court application
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court application
Ok.

What exactly is she asking for? Be very specific.

Have you filed a response yet? Due within 30 days I believe.
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The papers she filed with the courts show we have a verbal 50/50 agreement.
she is going for best interest for the child.

One of the last time we talked she said that her boyfriend was moving out.
Your argument then is simple. It is in the best interests of the child to have a full and strong relationship with parents, and 50/50 is the way to go. Be prepared with documentation to show your 50/50, and that you are a capable and involved parent (like I said before, doctors appointments, etc).
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Old 05-08-2014, 12:39 PM
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She is asking for full custody, she wants for all holidays to make all decisions.
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