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Old 10-21-2017, 10:25 PM
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Default cross-motion affidavits ?

I filed motion, applicant fired back with cross motion. I am now requried to respond to her cross-motion.

Are items already mentioned in my motion affidavit able to be used against her cross-motion affidavit ? Or do I need to remention them in my respond to her cross-motion affidavit ?
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I would think you need to address the
Contents of the motion with the same reasoning
Behind your motion.
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Please tell me that you and your ex are not using legal aid for this nonsense?
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I would think you need to address the
Contents of the motion with the same reasoning
Behind your motion.
agreed. It's funny because a lot of her paraphrase prove and reinforce the points I am making.
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Please tell me that you and your ex are not using legal aid for this nonsense?
elaborate on nonsense.

I am paying out of pocket and she is on legal aid.
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watch carefully for your ex attempting to re-try something that has already been decided previously in court. If that is the case your only response need be res judicata I don't know how many times you and your ex have been to court and this may or may not be relevant.

With regards to my comments about legal aid: I would encourage you to read the decision Tayken posted yesterday in another thread - high-conflict parents who rely on court to make parenting decisions.

Nonsense: If two adults cannot come to agreement about schedule then one wonders if co-parenting is feasible.

Perhaps you can figure out how many legal aid hours she has left and strategize accordingly?
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Nonsense: If two adults cannot come to agreement about schedule then one wonders if co-parenting is feasible.
I completely understand. She is trying to paint us as high conflict.

Problem is she is withhold her cooperation in hope of obtaining sole custody. Or just has some personality issues. How can you come to an agreement when the other parent is being completely unreasonable ?
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You likely will never be able to co parent with your ex. You will likely have to settle for a less than perfect agreement and recognize that you will disagree many times over the adherence to the agreement.

It’s just going to be part of your life. Sometimes you need to walk away with what you can and move on
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Beachnana - I think this is a legal-aid/tax-payer funded dispute. (Another thread is about 20.00 subsidized daycare costs...)
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Beachnana - I think this is a legal-aid/tax-payer funded dispute. (Another thread is about 20.00 subsidized daycare costs...)
one side is, they are on legal aid, hence subsidized daycare.. I'm paying out of pocket. been advised not worth it legally to oppose 20/month. my only concern now is if we agree and what happens if daycare becomes 400 or 600 a month. then what?

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