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Old 09-18-2015, 11:45 AM
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All your responses have been very helpful. I hate to waste the money on the legal route with lawyers, but the time is flying by and his lifestyle doesn`t look like it`s going to change any time soon. He threatened he would stop paying his share of daycare all together if I created the application. Received a verbal from him this morning that he will not pay daycare anymore until all this gets sorted out and has cancelled all future cheques for daycare. Wish I had that in writing, but next month (when I have to foot the full bill for daycare) that should speak volumes in court.
Thanks so much for your great advice. I will certainly keep you posted.
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Old 09-18-2015, 12:35 PM
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Send him an email saying something like "thank you for your call, please confirm you will not be paying your share of daycare going forward. If I do not hear from you by five pm today I will advise the daycare to cash the cheques provided with the nsf fees payable to you." Or something to that effect. Close it with "i will no longer be taking your calls, please keep all communications to email only" and then stop answering his calls.

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Wow....that`s good. I will do that.
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But what`s still puzzeling to me is for them to quickly return their response to my application and include that they believed that we were in a relationship. Relationship or not....two people living apart (separate houses)....the CS still has to be paid at some point.
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Old 09-18-2015, 01:38 PM
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Based on a recent experience, even if you have it writing, that he agreed to a lower amount, your ex could still be on the hook for retro child support.
Good luck.
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Old 09-18-2015, 01:54 PM
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Stop worrying about his response. Hes going to say whatever he wants or can say to try to get out of paying. The onus is on him to prove it. Otherwise he has to explain WITH PROOF why he didnt pay it and why he didnt update. The federal child support guidelines are clear.

You have a lawyer, they will know how to handle it. Just file his incredulous statements and responses that you know arent true under G for garbage in your brain.

Look at so many others who have been called abusers. People will say ridiculous things to get away with stuff.
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Unless there is a very good reason - (family debt is actually a good reason) - he will be obliged to pay full support.
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