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Old 08-11-2011, 01:35 PM
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That could be kinky, all depends on perspective.
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Yea...the only thing I fight over custody with him about is who gets the remote control.
Is that the remote for te sex toy?
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Old 08-11-2011, 03:39 PM
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. It only proves how women are more coniving then men.
Annnnnd....how is that exactly?
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Old 08-12-2011, 01:38 AM
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well obviously one of two scenarios played out:

1. Sh let him "rape" her knowing the end is near and use it in case he applies for custody.

2 he applied for custody, she went to a cunt lawyer who told her she can charge him for rape and get away with it.

A guy would NEVER thought about this. You know it.
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Old 08-12-2011, 02:25 AM
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... It only proves how women are more coniving then men.
It obviously does not 'prove' that in any way. Get your head out of your ass.
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Old 08-12-2011, 09:58 AM
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A guy would NEVER thought about this. You know it.
OK, so, according to your criterion men are dumb.

If only women would think about this, all it proves to me that woman are smarter than men, not necessarily more conniving.

I rather think that a more accurate and debateable issue here would be that perhaps only a woman could get away with it...

At any rate, the fact that she did get away with it (and I have no problem throwing my hat into the ring on this one) speaks about a faulty System, and not about one genders' conninvingness. Conniviousity? Connivivity? Predisposition to Connive? Whatever...

Another point of view (not one espoused by me, mind you) is that people fight dirty all the time. In fact, there is no such thing as fighting fair: fighting is dirty by definition and sticking to Queensbury Rules is a fantasy. So, good for her for finding a weapon that worked.

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Old 08-12-2011, 09:22 PM
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social policy wise - it is the right decision.

Sucks for the guy though, because that decision in this specific instance is the wrong result for the man. At least from what I read in the article.

Imagine the result if otherwise...
"well you honour, we agreed she would drink until she passed out, and then i could 'fantasy' rape her."

Ya... that's no good.

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OK, so, according to your criterion men are dumb.

If only women would think about this, all it proves to me that woman are smarter than men, not necessarily more conniving.

I rather think that a more accurate and debateable issue here would be that perhaps only a woman could get away with it...

At any rate, the fact that she did get away with it (and I have no problem throwing my hat into the ring on this one) speaks about a faulty System, and not about one genders' conninvingness. Conniviousity? Connivivity? Predisposition to Connive? Whatever...

Another point of view (not one espoused by me, mind you) is that people fight dirty all the time. In fact, there is no such thing as fighting fair: fighting is dirty by definition and sticking to Queensbury Rules is a fantasy. So, good for her for finding a weapon that worked.

Cheers!

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Most men are dumb. We let ourselves being taken advantage of all the time by these kinda skanks who call themselves "mothers". Whose fault is it that the system is biased? Last time I checked it's the Queen ruling this country.

If the guy was a bit smarter, knowing they're in custody dispute, he would've protected himself with either recording all the conversations or setting her up the same or similar way.

However, I agree it wouldn't work for him after two months, but it certainly would the next day.

It's all because (most) men are not thinking with their heads, the ones that actually gives results. Women know it, she knew it, she's got the kids.

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You, Sir....are an idiot.
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Can't wait for teledildonics to become a household feature...You can do whatever you want to yourself ! Nobody needs to say I am/You are innocent, he/she is guilty...
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