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Old 02-22-2010, 08:16 AM
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I get the impression that he thinks he is so much better then everyone else and very bitter.
Yep, and he just confirmed it. Guess he missed the detail about humility.

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Old 02-22-2010, 08:25 AM
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Listen man, you got a problem. First of all you indicated that you have a short attention span. Seems I am trolling on your particular turf. I wrote a well factual story, and you come on and compare it to a grade B novel by Hardy. You might try comparing to Chekhov, particularly his short stories. You might get through one or two.
No you delcared that bit about attention span. It wasn't me. You seem pretty proud of your literary work. Are you an English teacher? Failed author?

Good to see that you are well read, and that you are able to focus on Chekhov, carrying the cross for the trampled, your separation, your family law and your criminal matters. You must have lots of energy.

Have fun and good luck to you. Please post the resolution of your criminal matter.
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Old 02-22-2010, 08:57 PM
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I have to wonder though.....




















.....does the soy not cause the dog to have gas?? Poor Neena
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Old 02-23-2010, 10:18 AM
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The dog is not fed soy only a bit of oats and milk as I have my breakfast. She gets her one meal of the day after her walk. She gets no commercial treats or dcommerdial dog food. She may get a pinch of my food during the day if demed appropiate for a carnavore. She is never taken to a vet except for her typical shots.

Incidentially, the fill in my original post was to delineate the tranquil atmosphere that prevailed prior to the confrontation for which I was illegally charged.

I have the energy of two people and it has always been thus. If being strong, capable, intelligent and active implies arrogance in your mind. Then I am arrogant. I also have great admiration for people in any vocation, who carry out their chosen tasks with competence, hence seldom look down on any human being. I can deal with the so called low life and those who assume they aren't. In common terms, a whore in the bedroom, a whore in the living room, and a whore in the kitchen.

Yes, I will post my successes and failures in the domestic matter. I have got a response from the Brantford Police to my benefit, also an acknowledegement from the Police Complaints Commission. Nothing from the Attorney General of Ontario as yet. Their office is probably shocked that one of the peasants would dare contact them.
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WOW! I have no words! Maybe you can tell me what I should say since I have no ability to think or act for myself.....
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Old 02-23-2010, 10:52 AM
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I also have great admiration for people...who...seldom look down on any human being.
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I can deal with the so called low life and those who assume they aren't. In common terms, a whore in the bedroom, a whore in the living room, and a whore in the kitchen.
...if you didn't immediately turn around and call everyone a low life whore.

You're way way way over the top.

Your arrogance will indeed be your downfall. That "tranquil atmosphere that prevailed" defense will be great - right up until the time you called her a c**t. To counter your insulting comment, make sure you fill the lead up to it with lots of good stuff about the sun beams warming you and the room as they shone through the bedroom window while you read your emails in serenity.

Better stock up on Chekhov for your return to custody. The next jail time you spend won't be from your criminal conviction (unless you have priors, they won't send you up for a domestic), but from the contempt of court ruling the judge is bound to make after you fail to heed his/her warnings to can your rambling on and on and on.

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I am assuming the "Whore" you refer to would be your wife. I hope you use that term in your criminal matter. It might bring some credibility to the charges. You do know that emotional battery is considered domestic violence, right?
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Reading through the thread again, here's some of how you've described others both en mass and specifically:

-sheeple
-dumb tit
-a whore in the bedroom, a whore in the living room, and a whore in the kitchen.
-"Some people have a short attention span. It is a characteristic of the milk-sop generations, who weaned on junk food. If the essence is not one line, their minds wonder off."
-"Listen man, you got a problem."
-"One cannot insult the sheeple, they simply don't care, and to do anyhing usually takes too much effort. They yap instead of acting. It is the Canadian way."
-"Then got a lot of you BS. Which is exactly what your posts are."

You went on to describe yourself as:

"I have the energy of two people and it has always been thus. If being strong, capable, intelligent and active implies arrogance in your mind. Then I am arrogant. I also have great admiration for people in any vocation, who carry out their chosen tasks with competence, hence seldom look down on any human being."

Which may explain why you're coming across as arrogant. You've not accepted any responsibility for your part in what happened both with your wife or the way you've responded to others in this thread who have offered advice to help you with your case.

I am curious, if you feel everyone here is a 'sheeple' and not only refuse but criticize their advice to you, why did you make your post? Every post from you becomes more negative to those that make an effort to offer you advice and more provocative to those who take offence to your criticism of their advice.

I did read your story and feel badly for you that you're going through this regardless of what's been said in this thread. In my humble opinion, you may find you recieve a better response both here and through your journey if you figure out what your goals and objectives are and learn to graciously accept the advice you are offered to help you reach them.

It's a tough time for you and I understand it's difficult to remain positive and move forward. Don't get stuck in a toxic world of negativity because it's infectious to all those around you.

PS....I'm glad the dog is not gassy.
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Old 02-23-2010, 11:30 AM
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Reading through the thread again, here's some of how you've described others both en mass and specifically:

-sheeple
-dumb tit
-a whore in the bedroom, a whore in the living room, and a whore in the kitchen.
-"Some people have a short attention span. It is a characteristic of the milk-sop generations, who weaned on junk food. If the essence is not one line, their minds wonder off."
-"Listen man, you got a problem."
-"One cannot insult the sheeple, they simply don't care, and to do anyhing usually takes too much effort. They yap instead of acting. It is the Canadian way."
-"Then got a lot of you BS. Which is exactly what your posts are."

You forgot the c word that he "may" have used to describe his wife in the link embedded in his first post where he laid out in great detail what happened.
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Old 02-23-2010, 11:37 AM
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Perhaps....but I'm not perfect. And it was probably offensive enough the first couple times around.
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