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Old 01-17-2014, 11:36 PM
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Why don't you start by telling us what happened? I would appreciate CanLII case number to corroborate.

laugh my a** off you posted it while I was typing response ....

look up and down your streets boys ... that's were the truth is
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Old 01-17-2014, 11:40 PM
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I have started a new thread for you Pokeman "Pokeman's Corner"

I think it only fair to do what another poster has suggested and talk about your issues on that thread.
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Old 01-17-2014, 11:48 PM
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of course you did Arabian , when you cant argue you run for cover

here's the scoop :

my x beat my kids till they bleed from the mouth, and used me as punching bag

odd he gets a sentence and my x doesn't spend a day in court like this dude

why is that ?


look up and down your street for the truth , fathers try ($$) to get equal access to their children , women are treated differently - no equality will ever be achieved until this changes

period!
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Old 01-17-2014, 11:56 PM
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I'm not running Pokeman, I'm only suggesting that we have this discussion in another part of this forum.

I am sorry that your children were traumatized. It shouldn't happen.
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Old 01-18-2014, 12:11 AM
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I believe the OP post is a grand slam against their
spouse, I wasn't aware if you post a counter
opinion with statistics ( see website ) you must
provide your credentials

after all the OP didn't provide any

why is that Arabian , are you waiting for reinforcements
to try and discredit me

did this individual receive a judgement that is one
sided ?
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Old 01-18-2014, 12:24 AM
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quit being so f**king paranoid. Someone else posted, and I agreed, that Janibel's situation shouldn't be shadowed by others. If you ever had some success in your litigation we'd likely say the same for you. Oh, whoa, but wait a minute. Everyone is against you because you're a male. Boo hoo, boo hoo.

I'm choking with laughter that you think I need "reinforcements." Really - how lame.

Pokeman perhaps you're too yellow-bellied to go on your own thread is all. That's ok. We can all hide out on this one if you'd like.....

So now it's 7 years after your initial posts. Did your kids turn out ok? Are they traumatized by being raised primarily by the mother (if that is indeed what happened)? Please. Do tell.
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Old 01-18-2014, 12:59 AM
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nodoubt he deserved it

however, the system doesn't treat us all the same, prejudice lawyers whom believe men are the root of all evil , or perhaps men are unable to look after children seek out judges whom are cut from the same cloth.

did you know 'best interests of the children' means lawyers can meet with judge without your council present !

did you know a lawyer can select and put you in front of a judge they know
leans one way.

did you know judges in highest courts are selected by politicians the (cough) pillars of our communities.

the command structure on this website wants you too believe that family law is based on precedence, its not true, a fathers lawyer may dog it ( lay down do as little as possible ) where 'as if defending a mother may become adversarial.

I have talked face to face with fathers , just accused of DV is enough to separate fathers from their children for +6 months.

I recently spoke to a father named 'Darrel', his wife hit him in the head with a frying pan (11 stiches) , she called the police and claimed he was abusing her - blood down to his waist the police took "HER" away for a change - within 2 weeks she tried for custody and house with expensive lawyer = 'denied' , she went to shelter whom aligned her with right judge and within 3mths kids were hers.

the system is corrupt , I ( an engineer ) observed it at work first hand, my family survived DV and then was "raped" by lawyers, read http://www.wheretheylie.com for some insight into how fathers are treated.

my advice to all fathers out there, find yourself a lawyer by reference from other father, don't make mistakes I and million others made

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Pokeman, I don't know why you've hyjacked my thread to get up on your soapbox - obviously you are upset about your own situation.

As for mine ( and this is the reason for this thread ) I was in criminal court as a witness to a crime ... I am 55 years old and was married for almost 30 years to an angry alcoholic. My pressing charges had nothing to do with gaining a custody advantage - I was merely trying to save my own life.
Yes the system is corrupt, yes spouses (both genders) abuse the system, yes frying pans will fly - and lawyers will lie. It's a sad thing for all concerned especially for children, I get that.

Just deal with it ok - I had to ....
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He was given no jail time - which is a good thing as the Judge said at sentencing:''Mr XXX nothing would please me more than to send you to jail for a vacation, but in doing so I would be putting Mrs XXX in a precarious financial position ....
try and stay on topic please :

janibel's post is "Domestic Violence Conviction" of a male

janibel points out he was not thrown in jail cause she wouldn't receive $$


just that alone makes this topic disgusting from a legal "fair/justice for all" perspective.

I have pointed out a female can beat the sh1t out of her kids and attack her husband and not even spend a day in court


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# if your new to internet Arabian is trying to sway off topic and (with help of others )
# over post this topic - its done when you cant argue the facts - common.
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don't post anything on internet unless you want someone's opinion else deal with it



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Old 01-18-2014, 01:18 AM
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try and stay on topic please :

janibel's post is "Domestic Violence Conviction" of a male

janibel points out he was not thrown in jail cause she wouldn't receive $$


just that alone makes this topic disgusting from a legal "fair/justice for all" perspective.

I have pointed out a female can beat the sh1t out of her kids and attack her husband and not even spend a day in court


#
# if your new to internet Arabian is trying to sway off topic and (with help of others )
# over post this topic - its done when you cant argue the facts - common.
#

don't post anything on internet unless you want someone's opinion else deal with it



love you all,
peace out
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He was not thrown in jail - the Judge made a wise decision - I suppose that losing my home because I was a victim of DV would be justice in your view? Yes punish me for HIS crimes? Yes, let society pay the bill by tossing him in the slammer instead of getting him the help he needs?

janibel's post is "Domestic Violence Conviction" of a male

Wrong, janibel's post is Domestic Violence Conviction of a violent individual, I'm glad he wasen't sent to prison - how would that benefit anyone, including him, myself or society? He'll get therapy, I have my restraining order .... life goes on.
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Old 01-18-2014, 01:53 AM
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janibel i am truly sorry you were a victim
in domestic violence.

please consider that you posted on a public
forum.

family law in canada in my opinion is socialist ( distribute
the $ ) and not based on "precedence" ( lawyer$ arguing )
which is what the regulars on this (lawyer owner site ) try and hide with fill out the forms mentality, its raping family's and (in my opinion) family's of domestic violence when mothers offend are treated very different ( infrastructure wont put them in criminal court )- they put them in family so they can rehab them BUT fathers go to jail if blue collar else same fate as your spouse if they got $$.


your testimony simply revealed that even criminal
court makes sure the money flow$ to women.

your not the target of my posts just pointing out inequality.

the regulars however want the truth kept cloudy
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