Help. Pregnant.

[Marija]

Originally Posted by representingself

That is one thing you CAN NOT do!! Like I said before, when this child is born, the Father has full legal rights to the child. If you even consider taking the child out of the country... then you would be guilty of kidnapping..

You would lose custody and possibly end up in prison!

You have the right to choose to abort... but once the child is born, you cannot take away the Fathers rights.

I mean i can leave the country during pregnancy

[blinkandimgone]

You could, but would you not be in the same situation but just in another country? If you do so you may not be able to come back here if you change your mind. Canada is not so bad of a place to raise a family.

[Marija]

Yes i am not going to. I just were trying to say that his decision take drugs affects all parts of his life and our relationships.

Originally Posted by blinkandimgone

You could, but would you not be in the same situation but just in another country? If you do so you may not be able to come back here if you change your mind. Canada is not so bad of a place to raise a family.

[blinkandimgone]

Yes it does, but this is a choice you have to make for yourself first, then figure out how he fits in and if you wish to continue a relationship with him.

[Marija]

By myself? I can not do it by myself unfortunately..

Originally Posted by blinkandimgone

Yes it does, but this is a choice you have to make for yourself first, then figure out how he fits in and if you wish to continue a relationship with him.

[blinkandimgone]

You can do it on your own if you want, it is not impossible and there are lots of resources available for you. A councellor will be able to help you find what applies to you.

Right now you are upset and overwhelmed which is understandable. You will get it sorted out when you have some time to go over everything and make some choices.

[Marija]

Raise a baby u mean? by my own? that should be thought throw seriously. Ok, i am going to take some rest...
P.s. never been mamy before. hard make a first time like that

Originally Posted by blinkandimgone

You can do it on your own if you want, it is not impossible and there are lots of resources available for you. A councellor will be able to help you find what applies to you.

Right now you are upset and overwhelmed which is understandable. You will get it sorted out when you have some time to go over everything and make some choices.

[blinkandimgone]

Yes, raise a baby on your own. Many people do it and survive.

Regardless if he you get back together with him, this is a comittment YOU are making to the child for a lifetime. Make sure you are ready for that first, then figure out the rest.

Good night!

[Marija]

Yes i realize - that's all life-time projects..

Good night to you too!!!

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Originally Posted by blinkandimgone

Yes, raise a baby on your own. Many people do it and survive.

Regardless if he you get back together with him, this is a comittment YOU are making to the child for a lifetime. Make sure you are ready for that first, then figure out the rest.

Good night!