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| Common Law Issues The law regarding common law relationships is different than in cases of divorce. Discuss the issues that affect unmarried couples here. |
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Is there any recourse when the other party is obviously stalling?
My 'X' and the father of our 3 children (with varying degrees of special needs) decided that he needed some space after a 15 yr relationship, despite his regular and constant business travel. We utilized mediation 2 yrs ago and the Memorandum of Understanding (which now I disagree with in regards to the custody issue due to the children's educational needs and advocacy requirements) needed to be made into a legal separation agreement through our independent legal council. Finally after my insistence we went to court whereby a temporary court order for Child Support & Spousal support was awarded. No other decisions have been made and since going to court, he has fired his lawyer. Due do control issues and a huge lack of communication nothing else has been settled. Most recently I have been threatened with the foreclosure of the common residence (of which he is the only one on title & mortgage) where the children and I reside. I am unable to negotiate payment with the company directly as he will not provide them with the authorization to disclose any information to me. As the primary care give (stay at home 'wife' and mother) I have not worked full time in over 17 years. By staying at home and supporting his work schedule, he was able to provide well for the family - consistently making between $100 - $200,000.00/yr over the past 10 - 12 yrs (and we were income splitting for 2 yrs prior to the split). In my opinion, morally and ethically there is no question as to family responsibility. The question remains, legally; where do I stand? How can I get final decisions / resolutions for the access, custody and support of the children as well as any property /assets? I do have a lawyer, but am having difficulty with the system and the fees. As such, any support or advice would be appreciated! BTW, I am in Ontario. Thanks... |
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talk to your lawyer about getting an order to stop any attempts to have you removed from the home. They can provide an order to allow you sole possession of the home until the matters of assets are dealt with Seek also for disclosure from the ex on anything needed to expedite the process of resolving your issues surrounding the possession of the home and maintenance (financial) thereof.
You have allot of rights and he cannot drive the decisions on issues just because he is unwilling to be co-operative. Good luck FL |
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You might want to consider correcting the income splitting.
If you did not do the work to earn the money then jointly you have filed false information with the CRA to evade taxes. This would mean that you overpaid the taxes and would get a refund and he would have to pay the taxes due on the income you did not earn but he did. He should consider using the voluntary disclosure program; Voluntary Disclosures Program to avoid extra penalties. You don't need the voluntary disclosure program as you are coming forward to correct the falsehood and the program was set up to provide an opportunity to avoid penalties. You will not owe penalties nor will you be charged with fraud. |
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>> Yes but since they were together during that time, any taxes assessed to him will have to be paid 50% by her, and any refund due to her will have to split 50% with him, so why would they do that?
They are his taxes. He has to pay them. End of story. Similar happens all the time. One spouse got a tax deduction because the other forgot to claim a T4. They separate. CRA finds the missing T4 and reassesses both. He losses the deduction and owes money. As she is low income, she gets all the taxes collected refunded. Same type of situation when one spouse makes a correction. Most common "tip" is from ex spouses and ex business partner. Perhaps you could explain why you think the taxes and refunds would be split. There may be some truth to this being fair but as you probably know by now... life isn't fair. You can't expect the taxman to care about your sex life? If they were still together, the splitting would have to be agreed to between themselves. I have friends where one was quite upset to find out where the money came from because they were not told. It also raises the income to the appropriate level; to what is being earned by the higher income spouse. Then child support can recognize actual income. |
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My comments were based on a married like relationship - since this is common law, perhaps the debts and assets were split a different way, but given the lenght of union and that there were kids involved, probably marriage divorce rules were applied (split everything 50/50). I make these comments in that context.
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Its not who owes the money to who, it is about splitting things fairly - if you were sharing equally in the income, then you must share equally in the taxes on that income. Who the tax man goes after is irrelevant. Quote:
I truly fail to understand why some people consider a tax debt to be any different than any other type of debt (my ex included!). |
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Can anyone confirm whether or not this is true? I was in a CL relationship for 10 years. My ex didn't do his taxes so I stupidly claimed single not really knowing what else to do. Of course while we were together he enjoyed my large tax return. Now that we are separated he intends to claim common law to reduce his tax bill. If he does so I will of course be re assessed and owe a lot of money. Does that mean he will be responsible for 50% of my tax debt?
I have to say, separation is a HUGE learning experience. NEVER AGAIN. And thank you, thank you, thank you to the person who posted the link about the Voluntary Disclosure Program. That is a huge relief for me. |
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