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Common Law Issues The law regarding common law relationships is different than in cases of divorce. Discuss the issues that affect unmarried couples here.

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Old 05-21-2017, 02:18 AM
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women from foreign countries won't say no to a man from Canada, ever. They'll come with you enjoy all the great things, learn the game and take your money if they never really digged you personally .

you are right.. if you brought the property to the relationship it's yours.. what ever equity the property built since it gets divided.

Canada isn't the greatest country to get into relationships in.. unless you're dating a down to earth angel. Is she a down to earth Angel? it won't matter cause her friends will rig her up.. and the lawyers love it cause this is what they make a living off .. getting into people's business and taking their money

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women from foreign countries won't say no to a man from Canada, ever. They'll come with you enjoy all the great things, learn the game and take your money if they never really digged you personally .

you are right.. if you brought the property to the relationship it's yours.. what ever equity the property built since it gets divided.

Canada isn't the greatest country to get into relationships in.. unless you're dating a down to earth angel. Is she a down to earth Angel? it won't matter cause her friends will rig her up.. and the lawyers love it cause this is what they make a living off .. getting into people's business and taking their money
My understanding is that common law spouses do not divide the equity built up during the relationship. Only in a legal marriage is the equity built up during the marriage divided equally. This is the most significant difference between common law and a legal marriage.

I agree with you about corrupting attractive foreign women visiting Canada, with an old Canadian man.

Western women, especially old Canadian women, just hate seeing an old Canadian man with a lovely sexy foreign woman. I've seen old Canadian single women, in foreign countries, complaining to resort and hotel management, when they see an old Canadian man with a lovely young local girl, like in Mexico, Dominican Republic, Cuba, etc. etc.. It seems they expect the old guy to go after the old woman. In some foreign countries, I've also seen old Canadian women being entertained by handsome local lads.
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I can speak for myself and my experiences in observing good friends (older men and women) who observe a fellow old geezer with a young foreign woman.....

I observed lots and lots of laughter behind the old geezer's back. His social life in Canada was abruptly curtailed as his friends simply did not want the "spectacle" at their homes nor did they want to hang out and play cards with him anymore. I also observed men and women (young and old) feeling sorry for the young woman who obviously was so desperate that she had to become the nurse-maid/prostitute to the old guy. It really is a pitiful sight - I'm talking about a guy in his 70's with a 20-year-old. And yes, the happy couple did end up having a child together!

It must be disconcerting for the adult children of the old geezer to see their father playing house with someone younger than themselves.

So if you are contemplating something like this you should stop and consider how welcome you and your young g/f will be in your friends homes. Invitations to go out dining with friends may also evaporate.

Hey I'm what you would consider an 'old Canadian woman' and I really could care less so please do not state that "older Canadian women, just hate seeing an old Canadian man with a lovely sexy foreign woman." As long as the taxpayer isn't stuck with the bill then each to their own. When I see this I just think that someone is screwing the maid. Doesn't bother me in the least.
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My understanding is that common law spouses do not divide the equity built up during the relationship. Only in a legal marriage is the equity built up during the marriage divided equally. This is the most significant difference between common law and a legal marriage.
Can someone verify this? I'm very interested to know.
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It really is a pitiful sight - I'm talking about a guy in his 70's with a 20-year-old. And yes, the happy couple did end up having a child together!
Thats just messed up. But hey, to each their own.
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I can speak for myself and my experiences in observing good friends (older men and women) who observe a fellow old geezer with a young foreign woman.....

I observed lots and lots of laughter behind the old geezer's back. His social life in Canada was abruptly curtailed as his friends simply did not want the "spectacle" at their homes nor did they want to hang out and play cards with him anymore. I also observed men and women (young and old) feeling sorry for the young woman who obviously was so desperate that she had to become the nurse-maid/prostitute to the old guy. It really is a pitiful sight - I'm talking about a guy in his 70's with a 20-year-old. And yes, the happy couple did end up having a child together!

It must be disconcerting for the adult children of the old geezer to see their father playing house with someone younger than themselves.

So if you are contemplating something like this you should stop and consider how welcome you and your young g/f will be in your friends homes. Invitations to go out dining with friends may also evaporate.

Hey I'm what you would consider an 'old Canadian woman' and I really could care less so please do not state that "older Canadian women, just hate seeing an old Canadian man with a lovely sexy foreign woman." As long as the taxpayer isn't stuck with the bill then each to their own. When I see this I just think that someone is screwing the maid. Doesn't bother me in the least.
I’m happy to hear your viewpoint and observations.

I’m curious why you refer to old geezer’s young woman as a “nurse-maid/prostitute”? It’s perfectly normal for a man and woman near the same ages, to have sex and take care of each other, but when it’s an old man and a young woman, now she is classified as “nurse-maid/prostitute “.

Your point about being a spectacle is also interesting. There is an old saying “the birds of feather flock together” meaning that people who are similar to each other or share similar interests tend to spend time with each other. The old man with a lovely young wife is no longer similar to his old friend couples. So it’s understandable that the couples part company. But there is also the possibility the couples change.

The woman in an old couple doesn’t want her husband anywhere near the controversial couple because he’ll see how much more joyful and energetic his friend is with his new lovely young wife. Maybe the husband of an old couple may get thoughts of getting rid of his wife and getting a lovely young wife too.

In old couples, it is usually the woman that objects to seeing, an old man with a young woman. In many old couples, the man just goes along with the wife, to avoid raising a difference of opinion, potential conflict and increasing stress. Most old couples are happy just maintaining the status quo and not improving their lives.
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Why would a beautiful young woman want to end up with an old geezer? Financial security. (Female is likely well-aware of the old geezer's stash of little blue pills).

You have some very specific views of how older people view infidelity. Perhaps this is a cultural issue for you? .... perhaps observations of your own parents?

I have found that self-respecting, confident people don't feel the need to flirt and carry on with opposite sex, regardless of their age or sex.

If you really want to get a wide range of opinions perhaps you should conduct an informal poll on this forum (under chat section) and find out how many young women find old men physically attractive to them? You could also ask how people feel about their parents shacking up with someone 40 years younger?

If you're looking for endorsement into your own personal situation, perhaps you should find another sort of forum?
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Why would a beautiful young woman want to end up with an old geezer? Financial security.

not necessarily. not every women out there is after the mullah. and not every man out there is seeking a nurse maid. These are simply skewed perceptions of people following a divorce. I've caught myself guilty of this aswell. There are many great down to earth pleasant people out there. Not everyone is evil.


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You have some very specific views of how older people view infidelity. Perhaps this is a cultural issue for you? .... perhaps observations of your own parents?
There is no universal law. Regardless we live in multicultural country. It all boils down to personal opinions and biases.

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Why would a beautiful young woman want to end up with an old geezer? Financial security. (Female is likely well-aware of the old geezer's stash of little blue pills).

You have some very specific views of how older people view infidelity. Perhaps this is a cultural issue for you? .... perhaps observations of your own parents?

I have found that self-respecting, confident people don't feel the need to flirt and carry on with opposite sex, regardless of their age or sex.

If you really want to get a wide range of opinions perhaps you should conduct an informal poll on this forum (under chat section) and find out how many young women find old men physically attractive to them? You could also ask how people feel about their parents shacking up with someone 40 years younger?

If you're looking for endorsement into your own personal situation, perhaps you should find another sort of forum?
That’s the typical shallow narrow view from old Canadian women as to why young women date older men. I could tell you many reasons why women date older men, but it would be best if you hear/read the reasons from young women and psychologists. If you truly want to understand the reasons why beautiful young sexy women, not just young foreign women, date older men, I recommend you google the phrase “why women date older men”. It’s not just for the money. Googling gets over 13,000,000 hits, some websites have 21 reasons. Alternatively, you can continue thinking you know it all and condemn these women as prostitutes.

I’ve never stated or implied infidelity. An old man, who is with a beautiful young sexy woman, could have a marital status of divorced, widowed, or single or even legally separated, so there is no infidelity.

Additionally, let people do whatever they want at any age. Some people let age dictate or limit their activities. Let people do whatever makes them happy, not what makes their friends happy.

Intelligent, confident, successful healthy, men think for themselves and go after what they want. No need for opinion polls or for endorsements from old Canadian women.
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This is quite funny. I have to say I haven't had a man tell me, a woman, why young women date older men. You talk nonsense - like I was never young.

So what, on earth, is your point to this useless prattle?
You have a young girlfriend... if that's what makes you happy - good for you.

Now it's way past your bedtime grandpa....you probably need your rest cause the old prostrate likely has you up several times through the night.

Nighty-night!
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