On the saddle again - I'm falling though
Well, it's been awhile since I posted but figured I'd fill ya in on the new entertainment from my life.
So my X has for the past month been talking about settling and agreeing to joint custody once again... I gave her the benefit of the doubt a month ago and sat down with her to hear her out. She basically didn't want to change anything in the agreement except sole custody to material joint custody. She also wanted to ream out my girlfriend again. Basically that ended the conversation and weeks went by and she still wanted to talk about joint custody.
So I went again to hear her out and she basically started it off by accusing my girlfriend of teaching our daughter to say 'mommies jealous'! I've never once heard my daughter say this but apperently she's said it 3 times in the last 2 weeks. The last time my X asked her who taught her that she tells me and my daughter said my girlfriends name. What is not clear is if my X said did 'mygirlfriend' say that and my daughter repeated it or how it was said. I find it even possible that my X prompted this as well as she seems obessed with my girlfriend.
So now I have to deal with her threating to file a restraining order or a court order to 'shut my b** of a girlfriend up' as she put it.
How am I suppose to deal with these false allegations which just seem to be getting worse... so far it's been anxiety, my girlfriend running around naked and showing my daughter her breasts (as my daughter said 'mommies boobies') and now this 'mommies jealous' thing!) My god does it ever end!
After the first 20 minutes of arguing weather or not who said what we did talk about the agreement and she did agree to change two things but she's not willing to agree to a global joint custody agreement basically it ended in failure again.
Also, she's been supplying me with diapers and a diaper bag when I pick up my daughter for the past year and a half and now all of a sudden she's refusing to do so. I know(well I think) she's not entitled to but considering she's been doing it since seperation she'd continue to do so.
And the last thing she threatend me with is not giving me time for our daughter's birthday and father's day (which I was going to combine into the same day as their 2 days apart)
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