My point is that while your relationship with your ex is broken, is it possible to try and address the parenting concerns in the same way that parents would in a functional marriage?
So, for example, in a functional marriage if there is parental conflict - often one parent will offer methods of resolving the conflict. Do this in a way that can be brought up in court now that you are divorced. Offer to see a psychologist to discuss parenting issues. Offer a parenting coordinator if the communication simply isn't there. Offer to mediate the issues - but do it in a way that can be brought up in court.
If your former spouse refuses them all, it will be hard for him to blame you for being the source of conflict.
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