Quote:
|
Originally Posted by sasha1
While I did read that DecentDad hates the term, it is a term that describes a situation that is relevant. Change the term, whatever.. most of the time it is very obvious who was 'primary' in the child/children's care.
|
I dislike the term because it is a term of litigation. It is term of a person with an agenda. It is one of my red flag words that means you are in for a bumpy ride.
It is only used in custody and access wars. As I stated, it is a check box of great weight in swaying a judge's opinion. So off everyone goes defining who and what a PG is, all at $250 per hour.
Your opinion of what is revalant to your child may be completely different from your ex's opinion what is revalant to your child. And as Sean states, you get into all kinds of goofy wars like; Hey I changed 6 diapers today, I'm the PG. Hey, but I built the change table, so I'm the PG.