Ok... I need help please
My brother had a one night stand with.... well for lack of a better term, a bar fly, about 2-3 yrs ago (and wore a condom that did not break I might add). although he didn't have any prior relationship in any way shape or form with the girl(whom I’ll call Jane) he knew at the time or shortly there after that Jane slept with at least 2 other men (plus himself) in a weeks time.
She is on social assistance and has given them his name as the father and they are actively pursuing him for child support. They have actually served papers to my brother's girlfriends mother (confusing huh? no clue how they even found her) to appear at court and to submit HER financial statements.
My dilemma is this. My brother is going to attend court in his girlfriends’ mothers place in just 5 days! I have searched the net and a few months ago and remember finding an article where the court required some form of reasonable proof of the possibility of his being the father i.e. they were dating, living together, married what ever to order a paternity test. However I cannot find anything like this now.
I will be honest, my brother a) is broke and cannot afford a lawyer so his sister (moi) will have to do her best to get him one (which will take longer than 5 days) and b) absolutely refuses to have a needle in him for any reason (a long standing fear, so much so that he had stitches after a hockey injury with no freezing).
I really hope someone can give me some advice where to start with this. And what the hell to tell the judge on Monday morning because I am not about to let him open his mouth without a lawyer there for him.
Thanks in advance.