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Old 12-16-2010, 02:32 PM
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What are you getting at there?

For the most part first-time posters are usually asked for clarification over their situation or are handed a gentle reality check if needed. It is often their personal reaction to advice given that determines the further posts. If they are defensive and respond rudely, then it is possible they may not like what they read after that, but if they can sit back and think about what someone else has written, I think most posters get to see things a little differently.

I'm not judging the new posters, we've all been there, and it often is a huge blow to find out what you thought is not what really is. But Piggy, your implication that new posters are going to be judged and treated like garbage is simply NOT TRUE. If it was, I would have to question why you are still posting.