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Old 09-15-2010, 11:11 PM
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I while back I posted that my ex was taking the kids to the cottage and not transporting them back. Well, that turned into a week of not letting me see them and telling me I couldn't come on the property to get them.
Now he has stepped it up a notch.. I went to get them tonight at his place and he said"you'll only be at your mother's one night kids" That was not the agreement. When I quizzed him on it he basically said f- you I'm getting them at school and keeping them.
He said he had gone to the school and told them he would be getting them and he was not agreeing on our schedule (that we had agreed on before school started and he told me to go ahead and give to the school. He has also been discussing this all with the kids.
This is making me sick. He has told me he only wants a support cheque. He does nothing to look after the kids or supervise them and spends not a penny on them. I had to shop with them for b-day presses and shoes tonight because he will not do it. My lawyer will not do an emergency motion because right now in Ottawa they are not doing them for denial of access. (I know this is true because I looked it up on the law association website.)
What do I do? the police will do nothing. I don't want to get into a fight at the school about my kids but I know he will try to pare my access down to nothing if he can.