I contacted the pension plan people again on Friday & they told me not to worry about it. They will make the necessary calculations & the ex will get the agreed upon percentage plus any interest, when I apply for the pension. I finally talked with someone who actually wanted to help me! Big relief, she will get her lump sum but it will come from the money in my pension plan. I will not have to come up with an equalization payment myself.
So "Rioe" you are right on the money! Thanks very much to everyone for their input. I really appreciate it. I think maybe all of you know that feeling of "Oh shit WTF do I do now". I am sleeping better now.
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