Most definately. My youngest turned 18 March 9 2002. 2004 I put in my motion to vary. Dir Statement claims support terminated Dec 2004. That manager claims a letter was sent in about July 2005. as of that time they had me still in arrears by 7800. So they continued to fight in court until the Order of 2008. Going back to 2005 they pulled my Dr Lic and that made my bank call in all my business loans. The company was gone by the end of the year along with my 16 employees my house and basically my life. I was now homeless for 8 months until meeting AtaLoss in 2006. From there it has been a long haul but we manage day to day and are somewhat on our feet. While I was at the homeless shelter I met several others that were going through the same as me. This has left an impact on me as to the senselessness of all of this and that is mainly what I want changed. While we go through the motions etc to have family issues dealt with there has to be some kind of support system in place for us so called deadbeat dads.... many of us are not that by choice. I paid my support during the time required and it was not until I went through the proper channels to have it stop that they started.
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