You have the children 28% of the time. You are fortunate he is not pursuing Child Support because it would be automatically awarded if he pushed it.
Child Support is the right of the child, and no judge is going to sign off on an order indicated 0 support. If you had not signed an agreement via lawyers and had to go to court, you would have been much worse off financially.
It sucks that he won't be flexible with you, but without knowing the whole story I'm not going to comment beyond that.
Since you KNOW he's not going to be flexible, why can't you schedule fun things to do with them for the days you have them instead of having to rely on his goodwill.
You can't coparent alone...if he's not willing to work with you, then you have to start making the best of things and working within your existing arrangement.
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