Why did he deny you request to visit family out West?
If I was you, I would work towards a final court order that includes a clause clearly allowing you to visit your family out West for an agreed period each year. For example, a couple of weeks in the summer or Christmas. It would help your case if you have visited family out West before separation with the children and therefore there are is an already established pattern. I think in respect to mobility, that is about the best you can expect.
I know it stinks to be in this situation when you would rather be surrounded by family. I was in a similar situation. Aside from the children, I have no family in Canada, all my family is located in the UK and Australia. Can your family come out and visit you in the meantime?
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