L/v: what an interesting case that was! wow, i was really floored that this woman was doing this to her child and the father. i think what bothered me the most is that she went so far with it, that she allowed her little girl to actually go through a gyno exam to try to further her case. that was very disturbing to read. i was happy to see that the courts took it seriously and awarded the father custody. thanks for the link!
Berall: thank you for taking the time to send me this information. it was an interesting read, for sure. if only it was as straight forward as this, hey?
Grace: i found out yesterday that the spousal support issue is OFF the table for the upcoming court date! both lawyers negotiated and it was agreed that to award spousal support in the interim, in the amount that the ex wants, would severely compromise my ability to remain working here. so, now the only issue is custody and access. i already pay my child support in the amount appropriate for my salary, so this is not an issue. funny enough, i told my lawyer that my ex stopped answering the phone when she knew i would be calling to speak to my son. he and her lawyer came up with some SPECIFIC times that i would call, and that would be court ordered. one of those times are saturdays at 2:30 her time. she was told of this yesterday...and guess what....for 5 hours straight today, her line is busy! at least before i could leave a message on the answering machine telling my son that i missed him and loved him. now it's obvious she's leaving the phone off the hook so that i cannot even do that! in any event, this will be court ordered on monday! thank god for that!
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