Just make sure your arguments are child centric. If you are going to bash your ex, you'd better be able to both back it up, and that it's 110% relevant to your arguments. (ie. if you are trying to prove she is a danger to the children)
What I would do is type up your arguments, and then have a neutral third party read it over for you. (ie. a friend who has NO interest in the outcome of the case). Ask them to see what kind of impression they get from it.
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