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but have been lurking for some time. I have found the posts informative and many have made me want to laugh/cry as it's so easy to relate. My husband and I officially separated in April and are using a mediator to establish a parenting plan and a separation agreement. I had hoped that all would be settled within a few months but stbx has procrastinated about getting paperwork together in favour of dating and chatting online. I really appreciated the thread about life post divorce. There is a light at the end of the tunnel!