Okay - divorce sucks. We
all know that. Especially for the kids. Personally I loved what I heard on dr phil the other day( did I
actually say that???lol ) That it is better for kids to be
from a broken home then to live
in one.
But with that disclaimer what did you find the BEST thing about getting separated/divorced? I want to hear all the positive things about it. Even if they sound really stupid and petty. Most of them are -- but the pleasures are small and enjoyable.
Deciding what I eat - I can have frosted flakes for dinner if I want with no funny looks - except the cat and those looks are more hungry looks ;-)
okay a total cliche but no toilet seat up- You would think after all this time I would be used to it being up. but nope. You men must love less nagging about it ;-)
The closet all to myself - it's so spacious.
Decorating to my taste and only my taste.
All the support friends and family have shown me - I would have never felt so loved had I not needed it. *sniff sniff*
Along that line- realizing how strong I could be when needed.
No toothpaste goop in the sink- yuck- or at least if there is it is MINE
I don't keep tempting foods for me in the house anymore - and I don't have to anymore for him
A clean place- or if i am lazy- only my mess.
Less grocery shopping to do. Less to carry into my place.
Not having to consult someone else about what I want to buy or do. I'm a night owl and an insomniac at times- so it is awesome to be up and about without worrying about waking your partner. I can vacuum at 3 am if i want
I seem to have tons of time to myself to do what I want now.( maybe it goes with being an insomniac
) I am getting into hobbies I have forgotten about and looking into new and exciting things. ( have to do with the time and with that my routine has changed and I am now looking for new things to do- mostly me not my former partner.)
So tell me all the
good things about being Divorced, Remarried or Single! I want to revel in my singlehood:-)