It really depends on how amicable things are with your ex. Given the situation you describe, you should also qualify for the CCTB/UCCB payments 6 months/year.
You can file for that without your ex's signature, though if you choose to do it on the sly, expect it to cause tensions.
Your best bet is to approach your ex and get them on board. Perhaps offer up a formal settlement that gradually decreases the amount of CS you pay, however make sure you mention that you will pay proportional share of things like book orders, extra curricular costs, etc to make up for it.
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