Hey...
Had to read...
You know you can also hit him up for child support, and spousal support, and I raised my two on less then that. When I bought our house we ate pop corn or nachos as a "treat" for dinner, so what is he moaning about. Ask your lawyers what else you can get, play him at "his" game and go for the juggler. Tell him your want child and spousal support, the child support may even counter act the spousal support in which case neither of you may get nothing. Get out all your chips, aim for the top and meet in the middle.
BARTER - also so you know spousal support is only for a limited number of years so that the spouse can get any further educational training at no financial stress to the spouse. I believe that after so long that the spousal support ends. Check this with your lawyer.
Cheers .... keep at it.... it will all work out....
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