I think there may be some issues with either parent leaving country for any length of time, and leaving children behind. I am not a lawyer, and do not know to what extent the law accepts or prohibits this. But consider - should either of you re-marry, and leave the children in care of the new spouse for a week-end or something. Is that so unreasonable?
I'm not trying to advocate that you should be kept in the dark either. It is more than fair and responsable to exchange information for any issues that may arise. I would expect parents of sound character to offer such information freely.
What I am saying is that you have to accept that this is the way things are, and you need to realize your wishes are not always paramount to your ex anymore.
Or, perhaps... I'm extending a personal conflict into my arguement here on these boards. LOL.
It's a tough thing to give up control, but thats what each must do when exercising 50/50.
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