[tugofwar]

Ok this has got to stop, back and forth abusing each other. Tim, you came on here for a good reason, its about your children and are very passionate about them so stay focused on them and not what others are saying. You don't need to continue adding fuel to the fire. You need to cool down. I was the one who told him to appologize as I know how helpful this site is and wanted to continue helping Tim. Keep it about the kids, ask questions. You will not get sympathy from this site as I learned quickly. If you want to continue here then keep it about the kids. No need for swearing etc. It's not helping anyone!!!!!
As for everyone else, ease up. There's no reason to keep going on and on.
Just let it be. We have all been there especially at the beginning where the best of us was lost somewhere.
But this has got to stop.