I do understand what you're saying. Believe me, I am questioning my being here now. I guess I just left newfoundland so desperate and when a man is kept from his child, depressed but can't afford medication, and so poor that I was hungry and literally cold, well I suppose I felt I had no other options at that time. I certainly knew nothing of how family law worked and it's not until very recently that I started to get a rude awakening while doing research.
I am trying to think of another way out of this mess. Unfortunatly I am probably in over my head. If I were to pack up and go home now I am right back to where I was when I left. I applied to literally hundreds of jobs while on welfare...no one wanted to hire someone with my education because I was told that they knew I'd just leave the job when something better came along. I lived in a university city and there are thousands of students who fill all of the kinds of jobs that even pay a low wage. On the other hand, I may end up here, alone and without financial resources as well. I suppose I am keeping my fingers crossed and hoping to fair ok with the divorce. Until then, I'll hang tight. I do know however that I will have no choice but to instantly pack up and leave this place within a week if stbx gets her spousal support. Crazy stuff...BIG decisions.
Thanks so much!
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