Ok look , I have tried to research everything , this is not new to me , I have been doing this for nearly 3 yrs , you think I have just been sitting back and doing nothing ....there are plenty of sites out there , and its all a mess of case files , not all cases are the same , and DADTOTHEEND, I am sick of reading , and sick of seeing men...good men being run threw the mud, from women who do this for the sake of sinking their hooks in deeper and using kids as tools to hold onto a shitty relationship. The laws as they are now ARE ridiculous, My ex is NOT my mother and should never be able to tell me I can not see my kids, BUT that is what happens , and I do know its not just my ex , So im not all that concerned as to what the lop sided courts think , when and if I have to go to court I will make MY opinion heard I will assure you that. In most cases a blind man can see who is trying to be a good parent and who is using kids as tools to hurt. I dont know YOUR story , but im sure it was unpleasant as well, It should not matter at all how many posts i put up??? I am not trying to be nasty , I am trying to remain calm and see if anyone can advise me as to a peaceful resolve , as apposed to going into court and have the woman get everything she demands ...Now I like women , it's how I got into this mess, but I can see how being gay is appealing to some men who have had enough.
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