Im not sure why you decided to write that letter??? You needed to pull yourself out of the situation and give a break, gather your thoughts and feelings. I think you are still holding on to this abusive relationship in hopes that it will work out. You seem still so sincere towards her and this abuse will continue because you are allowing it.
You really need to watch what you promise her as well. Keep it simple and don't go into that much detail. You should have just said we need to figure things out and we should think about what we really want and go from there.
I really don't think you were reading anything of importance lastnight.
No one wants to go to court, no one wants to waste their money on a lawyer but you never know--- what if she gets one?
You need to do your research, collect information first. Don't make any promises right now unless you promise to be there for the kids.
Seriously, pull yourself out of this for awhile. Ask questions, read posts, etc.
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