Wow, that's really bad for you and your daughter. As much as you feel he owes for cs etc I think you have to think about the big picture here.
Someone once asked me if I felt so strongly about sole custody and have been supporting my child on my own (have been for a year with no cs) would I give up cs because of how strongly I felt about having sole. First hands in the air, no no he has a financial obligation to meet but w hat this person was trying to do was to get me to really think about it....
My daughter will when she's older look back and think, my mom was fighting for me, for my well being and wow look at what she did for me......
In saying this, I am not saying I don't want a relationship between my daughter and her father, but I stopped forcing it.
If it ment not getting a penny from him, would he stop this non sense of just having time with her so he doesn't have to pay or pay less.
Gets you thinking...
But I also feel for you, he has an obligation to you and his daughter and just because he wants nothing to do with his daughter doesn't mean that he should totally abandon her.
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