Nothing is going to help unless both parties want things to improve.
If your ex is doing things like using the communication book for personal attacks, and other things I've read in your other posts, then what is a parenting co-ordinator going to tell him? To smarten up? To let go of his anger? Not to go over to the Dark Side?
He's not going to listen. A third party can only help if both parents want the help. If he can step back and realize that this isn't working and things have to change, and at least some of the change has to come from him, then it can work. But that is whole problem you are having.
I think it might be of some help if he is getting too much bad advice from his friends and family and he is being convinced he is the victim, etc and an objective profession giving the opinion to just drop all this shit and do what's right for the children might wake him up. But I can't answer that, you have to be the best judge of where his hostilitiy is coming from.
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