Further difficulties with drop off
Went over to the police station car park so that the exchange could take place there. It was another difficult drop off. My five year old, became really upset. Didn't want to get out of my vehicle. Got her out, and it was just "Mommy I don't want to go to Daddy's house, I want to stay with you." Ex started asking her why she didn't want to go to Daddy's house right there in the parking lot. She wouldn't answer. He put her in his vehicle and she started throwing up. I left in my vehicle.
I feel devastated and very guilty leaving her in that state. My ex won't allow her to call me when she is away with him, because "it is his time." He also won't call me to let me know that she is OK. Spend the weekend worried and anxious as hell. Don't get much sleep.
This "separation anxiety" started about a month ago. She had no problems with transition before that. Unlike, his sister, my three year old son has no problems with the transition from one home to another.
What can I do?
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