[rokie]

Well thanks for your answer
Thats what I thought as well. However I must make a stand somewhere and for me now this is it. Support for me for sure but my "child" is living on her own and getting ready to marry so no child support.
He and I had a discussion about it last night and he may be willing to bend on who moves so we'll see. But he now wants us to do up a separation agreement without lawyers and there is NO WAY I will do that. He is entitled to a good pension and benefits and raises every year. I supported him while he went to school for his work so I believe that I should be entitled to something. I don't want to gouge him but I also don't want to have to line up at the soup kitchen while he lives on High Street.