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Old 02-18-2010, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Ihave2kidsIcannotsee View Post
Every women is not a monster only ones that take their family through court! (Or Men that do so) There is no need for it and if a women/man was not a monster then he/she would be one to sit down and work it out on paper with his/her ex and not with lawyers and judges! Some people feel the need for power and the court holds out their hand to many men/women and gives them the power they have always wanted over their ex to control there finances and put most of the money into their hands!

It is time people wake up and see the light for what it is and stop putting blind folds on, look at the many men/women in this country that are fighting just to have access to see their own children. Who have over night become a criminal and needs now to go to court to get any access and after going to court and spending thousands gets told by his/her ex you can't have the kids and no one will do a thing about it. It is time for Canada to stop treating non-custodial parents like money trees and not like the parents they are supposed to be they have just as much right to see their children as the custodial parent. This makes me so angry I had better stop rambling now! Anyways just had to vent!
well said. Currently it's way too easy for moms to win the custody through the court, that's why most of them think of divorce too lightly, or men with tons of money to burn for that matter. Canada needs to realize, their kids are the ultimate victims, and the focus should be to alleviate the damage done to the kids through divorce first. And whether having lawyers for custody issues in each case should be determined by the family court judge on case by case basis because most of the time, it's just not necessary, a simple burden to both parties. ultimately the judge decides what's best for the kids, not the lawyers.