Well my daughter stayed overnight on the weekend! Nice to hear her say 'night night daddy'
So basically the issue should now be dismissed and we can move on - hopefully! We have a 4 way meeting coming up on wed and now that she allowed our daughter to stay at my place she can't say she doesn't trust me anymore (to the extent of not allowing her to stay). We just have to determine custody and stipulations in the agreement... but hopefully this will be settled in the 4 way meeting, we sign and we can move on with our lives.
I have 2 more days that she can change her mind again ...