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Originally Posted by Sk8r
My ex-spouse and I together decided to have 2 children and support and raise them.
Our marriage didn't work out.
He decided to marry a single mom of 2.
Why should my kids suffer because he now has 2 more children to support. Obviously they were being supported before by their mother. (and presumably a father somewhere)
I get what you are trying to say, but he married into 2 more responsibilities KNOWING his existing responsibility to his own children. Why should he get a break on CS?
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My husband signed on to be with his ex-wife for life and had a child with her. Then she decided to sleep with another man and end their relationship so does that mean that he isn't entitled to go on with his life? Why should he not have the right to remarry and have another family. He supports his child and his exwife. Why should our children not have what his first child has? You situation is unfortunate and we have a system that doesn't place blame to the party responsible for the breakdown. Understood. But to expect another not to go on with their life and reach happiness..... not fair. If his ex-wife married a millionaire tomorrow....does the support payments stop? No, he is still responsible to look after those children....as he should. I just think it should be fair..if he now has three chilren why can't there by equalization? Fairness.