As a parent who is dealing with an ex who limits and tries to control every time I talk with or see our (not mine or hers) children I can fully understand your frustration. For the first 93 days of my seperation my ex refused ALL access to our children (3 of them) constantly tries to have me end my access early without reason or make up time suggested...etc etc.. My lawyer suggested a book to me called Divorce Poison by Dr Richard Warshak. It is an amazing well written book on the subject of Parental Alienation. I HIGHLY reccomend every parent to read it. Giving up your access time IS NOT HELPING HER!!! it is actually adding to the problem.... read the book and you will understand why I say that.
Your Ex needs to understand this too, but like mine I doubt she will listen as she most likely feels she is doing nothing wrong. Your child needs BOTH parents don't give up the end results are worth it trust me...
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