i know exactly how you feel. My ex and I were not officailly divorced yet when ha had the gall to take his girlfriend to my parents (yes my parents) to tell them that she was pregnant with his child. My mom told me the news and after getting off the phone from her i put my hand through a window.
Here is the thing though, he is no longer with that one, in fact he was already done with her before the birth. The next one wanted to marry him (had her fooled) she got pregnant and once again it was over before the birth. Not sure if he has had kids after that or not and I really do not care. He may have moved on faster then I did, but he is still moving on and I am happily married for almost 12 years now.
The first girlfriend of his was the hardest but I got over it. He will never find happiness because he will not do the work it takes for a successful relationship.
Best of luck to you in this new direction in your life
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