Update: The last meeting didn't go so well. Mom is demanding that i pay full child support and disagreeing to a 40 - 60 % split. I think the more i told her the more educated she became on the rules. Now 40% is out of the questions. I think the one on one negotiations have come to an end. I have pleaded my case of why we should come up with our own agreement, but know the rules and laws of Ontario seem to be first on her mind.
I really feel down. I so don't want to court. To me it seems like blowing up what i worked so hard for for the last six years. I wish one of you could tell me the magic answer that would make it all make sense. Not so naive to think that can happen.
The way i see it i have two choices. Give in and pay the full amount and get 35% visitation or status quo as she likes to remind me. OR go to court and fight for 40% or more. And adjust payments accordingly. Either way, i feel sick about it.
thanks for listening.
HM
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