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Originally Posted by tugofwar
Well my ex contacted me tonight at 7pm wanting to see his daughter tomorrow. I really wish he gave me more advanced notice as we have plans set for tomorrow. I am affraid of emailing him back and saying we have plans just for him to turn around and say that I am denying him to see his daughter. This is not right. He can go weeks without seeing her then can send me an email a few hours in advance. Call me crazy but I don't think it's fair. I don't want to deny him but this is getting out of hand. Help. What do I do? I don't want to set a schedule unless he wants to.
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I would change your plans this one time and let him see her. Put him on notice though in writing that from now on you want, say, 24hrs notice. That way it makes you look like the reasonable person and if it goes to court it is more proof for you that you are really trying to make sure your daughter and her father have visits.