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Originally Posted by lacey
What I do not understand is how an ignorant, foul, drunken, hot-headed moron should be allowed the PRIVILEGE to see his son, the son he claimed he wanted so very much, after dumping that same infant weeks after his birth. He hasn't returned ANY of my calls- some of which I even tried filling him in with his son's milestones thus far.....
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Hey billiechic, this is not as bad as what I described in earlier posts, but not far off. This Mom appears to be making a solid attempt at improving herself and making a good life for her kids, but she is jaded by the previous father, and it is pretty clear that she harbours resentment for the current one.
Calling the guy "...an ignorant, foul, drunken, hot-headed moron..." is not cool. Indeed, she seems, on the face of it, to be exhibiting two of those traits herself in her post. Projecting that onto Dad does her son no favours. Going on to mention whether "...he should be allowed the PRIVILEGE to see his son..." indicates that she doesn't seem to understand that their son has a right to develop a relationship with his father. This is not about privlilege (bestowed/dictated/decreed by Mom) of parents, it's about rights of children.
Try viewing this situation from your son's perspective Mom, not from your "...angry, frustrated..." one. You appear to be confusing your interests with those of your child.