I know she will love him unconditionally and I don't want to stop either one of them from forming a bond but up to this point, one has not yet formed. He is more a stranger to her and it's not up to me or his parents to have to force him to form one with her. I can't decide that shared parenting is the way to go at this point because I don't want to say maybe things will change if they don't. If in time we can set aside our differences and we work on parenting our child how we want and not what everyone else thinks, then there might be a chance of it but Im not taking that chance that maybe things will change right now. I have my daughters best interests at heart. No where have I said or written I don't want them to have a relationship. Just by the past and still to this day I don't feel he is putting her first on his priority list. I have been providing and caring for her on my own up to this point and I know that I can continue on giving her what she needs to have a healthy upbringing.
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